Quilt of Connection – Derby: Our Stories Now in the Museum

After more than a year-long wait, the Quilt of Connection – Derby is now on display at The Museum of Making, and it feels like a truly special moment.

The project began with a simple but powerful question: What is your story, and how would you like it to be told? And, if you could be represented in your local museum, how would you choose to be celebrated? These questions invited people across Derby and Derbyshire to reflect on their lives, their journeys and their connections to this place. What followed was a series of gentle conversations, shared making and moments of connection that slowly grew into a large, collaborative artwork, one made not by a single artist, but by a whole community.

The Quilt of Connection is a slow-stitched textile collage created by the people of Derby and Derbyshire. Each stitched piece carries a personal story, of belonging, migration, memory, resilience, love and community. Together, these fragments form a shared portrait of a living, diverse city. The project was developed in response to History Makers: Unfolded by Derby Museums, which asked visitors to reflect on whose stories are told in museums and whose are still missing. This quilt is a collective response to that question, placing lived experience and community voices at the heart of the museum.

Cloth became a form of memory within the project. Participants repurposed cherished, unwanted, and discarded textiles, stitching their narratives into reclaimed fabrics associated with everyday life and human connection, bed sheets, tablecloths and cloth carrying the traces of use, care and shared history. These materials became vessels for storytelling. Piece by piece, layer by layer, the quilt grew into a tactile collage that holds stories of love, friendship, family, loss, loneliness, migration and belonging.

The process of making was not separate from the artwork; it was the artwork. In my practice, the space created through shared making is always as important as what is eventually produced. This is where the real magic happens: where conversations unfold, relationships form, communities connect and individuals begin to see themselves reflected as part of something bigger. The Quilt grew not only through fabric and thread, but through time spent together, listening, sharing and being present with one another.

Workshops took place across Derby and Derbyshire, including sessions with Maison Foo, Derby Multi-Faith Centre, Women’s Work Derbyshire, and Craft & Chat Ashbourne, alongside open drop-in workshops at Derby Museum & Art Gallery and the Museum of Making. These sessions were supported by the museums’ wonderful volunteers and welcomed people of all ages and abilities. Each person who took part brought something unique, a memory, a piece of cloth, a story, a feeling, and together those contributions now sit side by side, creating something bigger than any one of us.

Seeing the Quilt of Connection displayed at the Museum of Making is deeply moving. It represents a shift, placing community voices, lived experience, and personal histories at the centre of a cultural space. This quilt belongs to everyone who contributed to it, it is their story, now held in the museum. Alongside the quilt, a book of participants’ reflections will soon be displayed, sharing the words and reasons behind each stitched piece.

A heartfelt thank you to everyone who shared their stories, time and creativity. This work would not exist without you. And special thanks to Sally Hawley, Hope Slater, and Eilish Clohessy-Dennis for supporting this project and helping bring it into the museum.

If you were part of the project, I hope you’ll come and see your piece in person. And if you’re visiting Derby, I warmly invite you to experience the Quilt of Connection, a work made from real lives, real stories, and real connection.

The Art of Holding Space: A Day for Those Who Hold Others

In community and wellbeing spaces across Derby, artists, educators and facilitators hold space for others every day offering room for creativity, connection, and healing. But who holds space for the practitioners?

That’s the question that brought us together on Sunday 20th July at Brailsford Methodist Church for The Art of Holding Space, a half-day workshop created especially for those working in community and creative practice. It was a gentle, powerful space for rest, reflection, and reconnection, offering creative tools and trauma-informed approaches for those who spend so much of their time supporting others.

The day opened with grounding rhythms from Chris Sylla, whose drumming circle invited us to settle into our bodies and the space. Some participants had never drummed before and left surprised at how deeply it helped calm their nervous systems and shift anxiety into rhythm.

Marie Hegarty from Scraggy Moo then introduced the principles of trauma-informed care, sharing practical and thoughtful ways we can shape safer, more responsive spaces for others — and for ourselves. One participant noted a key learning moment around using boundaries not as barriers, but as tools for care: a reminder that supporting others also means protecting the group from harm.

We closed with a slow stitching workshop I led, creating space to explore gentle creativity with hands and heart. Threads moved quietly through fabric as people reflected, shared, and simply breathed together in stillness — a chance to make something, slowly and softly, just for themselves.

The feedback from the day left me full of gratitude, not just for what was learned, but for what was felt and shared:

  • “Today created space for healing and a sense of togetherness.”
  • “I feel empowered. I’ve connected with others running similar work and feel more confident about trauma-informed practice.”
  • “It reminded me that we are an incredible resource — full of compassion and skills. We need to connect more.”
  • “I was able to reflect on my own needs, my boundaries, and my self-care as a facilitator.”
  • “It was warm, supportive, and full of ideas. I’m taking this energy with me.”

Moving forward… Holding space for others is beautiful work, but it can also be heavy, complex, and isolating. Days like this are a reminder that we need each other just as much as our communities need us. We need space to reflect, to reconnect with ourselves, and to be in the company of others who understand the unspoken weight of this work.

I’m deeply grateful to everyone who showed up with open hearts and open hands. And I hope this is just the beginning, of more conversations, more collaborations, and more care for the carers.

If you were part of the day, thank you. If you weren’t, I hope we meet next time. Because the art of holding space isn’t something we do alone, it’s something we learn, share, and strengthen together.

Tikkun Olam – healing for a broken world

Over the past week or so I have been ‘gifted’ a number of remarkable contributions to the 80 Candles Quilt. Beautiful, thoughtful and carefully crafted squares each representing a life affected by the Holocaust and the Nazi regime. These squares act as a recognition and celebration of a life lived. They also depict the horror of lives taken, lives brutally altered and subsequently lives impacted for generations to follow.

Participant contributions – Every Stitch A Story

The weight of these personal stories has at times in recent weeks felt heavy to carry. When mentioning this to a truly wonderful participant at workshop last week they offered me the gift of the Hebrew phase to help me in the weeks to come, ‘Tikkun Olam’. ‘Tikkun Olam’ is the Jewish concept of the importance of social action and carrying out acts of kindness in the pursuit of improving, repairing and healing a broken world. The 80 Candles Quilt Project was referred to as the act of ‘a peace maker’.

When I began this project, the key aims were education, memorialisation and honoring those affected. What I never anticipated was that this project would, so long after the events, offer a sense of comfort to those personally affected. That sharing and honoring would help people feel seen, heard and acknowledged and that the project would provide space for healing and repair. Every contributor to this project has carried out an act of Tikkun Olam – together we are carrying out small acts of healing for a broken world. So, whilst this weight is at times heavy, it is worth carrying and it feels lighter when we carry it together.

Welcome to the project team!

Support for the Holocaust Memorial Day: 80 Candles Quilt project has been amazing! Organisations including The Multi Faith Centre, Ashbourne Methodist Church Craft & Chat Group and the National Holocaust Centre & Museum have provided workshop space; a steady stream of financial donations have been trickling in via the crowdfunding page (please keep donating) and participants have been incredibly generous with their time, creating beautiful, meaningful dedications. I am delighted to share that the project is also benefiting from research support as Yael Sacker has joined the Project Team.

Yael is an International Relations master’s graduate from University of Birmingham and has been beavering away behind the scenes working on research to help shape the project. Researching a broad spectrum of individuals affected by the holocaust, Yael has created a selection of easy-to-read profiles so that participants who don’t have the skills or time to do their own research can still take part.

Yael Sacker, Research Support

I have a passion for research which I am excited to apply to this project. The HMD project is one close to my heart as many of my ancestors perished in the Holocaust, and this project is wonderful chance to amplify their and other victims’ stories and voices.

Participants have been enjoying reading the profiles and a number have been selected as the focus of their creative contributions. These will be available at the last remaining workshops at The Multi Faith Centre on Tuesday 12th November, The National Holocaust Centre and Museum on Thursday 14th November and to student Art Ambassadors at Queen Elizabeths Grammar School who are taking part in the project in the coming weeks.

Crowdfunding Page LIVE!

At the risk of being crass, running community projects takes money; workshop space, fabric, threads and of course my time as a professional Textile Artist & Community Arts Practitioner. Funding for projects can be tricky to come by, but the 80 Candles Memorial Quilt Project was something I really wanted to do. It feels important and timely.

Determined not to let the lack of funding out there deter me, I have forged ahead and ‘trusted the process’. Previous projects have taught me that if you have vision, passion and determination, and you can share that with others, it really does all work out in the end. This project is proving no different, not only have the Multi Faith Centre, Ashbourne Methodist Craft & Chat Group, Brailsford Methodist Church and the National Holocaust Centre & Museum supported the project by donating venue space to host workshops, participants have been asking how they can donate towards costs too.

I am incredibly grateful to everyone who has donated so far, with a final quilt measuring nearly 1.5 meters by 2 meters it’s a costly piece to create. To honour those who had everything taken from them, right down to their clothes and shoes, I have strayed from my usual practice of utlising vintage and reclaimed fabrics and opted instead for beautiful linens and organic cottons.

The results so far are truly inspiring. The workshops have been beautiful spaces for storytelling, connection and creativity. The first squares finished are wonderful miniature visual narratives or people’s lives and have offered the time for contributors to really connect with the experience of others and share that story more widely. If you’d like to get involved with or support this project there are three ways to get involved:

  • Take part in a workshop, dates and links here and make a donation towards costs.
  • Order a postal pack and complete your contribution from the comfort of your own home.
  • Donate to the project and have your name embroidered on the back of the quilt.

We currently have 30 participants and nearly 40 squares in progress, please help us create this beautiful memorial and join the team!